Wednesday, April 20, 2011

introverted leaders

Several years ago I was sent to Portland for a week long training to become qualified to administer the MBTI. At the conference, I learned far more than I expected, and had some suspicions reaffirmed. One of those was that introverts couldn’t be leaders. I mean how could they rally people? How could the sell a vision? How could they stand under the pressures of people yelling their discouragement and criticism at them? Well I was wrong. I was operating from a false understanding of what leadership was; out of my own perspective on my own leadership strengths. Today, most of those who I see as the best leaders in my own life are introverts, or at least not the William Wallace like extroverts I thought they needed to be. This article highlights 5 reasons that Introverts are actually every bit as successful as their loud-mouthed cousins. Those reasons are, 1. They think first then talk—I’m sure they don’t apologize for saying the wrong thing as much as I’ve had to. 2. They focus on depth—this is why I love my “I” friends, the economy of words doesn’t allow chit-chatty-small talk. 3. They exude calm—they handle criticism, because they’re just so calculated, and even keeled. 4. They write before speak—This one doesn’t really resonate with me. 5. They embrace solitude—if people don’t like them, “OH JOY! I get to be alone now.” Of course this article is secularly focused so doesn’t account for spiritual attunedness, but this is what I see as their greatest asset.

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  2. Wow, this almost sounds like you are saying that introverts would make better leaders than extroverts. God help us all! Actually I have seen a lot of strong leaders who are introverts. My little brother is one of them actually. He is an excellent leader but after a long day of being around people, he retreats into his room and becomes a different person that I like to call "Mr. Cranky." Most people think that my brother is an extrovert, but that is probably because they have not met Mr. Cranky. I agree that introverts can be excellent leaders, but it is very important for them to get "alone time" to recharge.

    Now is it possible for us extroverts to be good leaders too? Well the answer to that is no. We are doomed! We say things out loud that we almost immediately regret. We talk through our decision process out loud, which confuses the people we are trying to lead. We try to focus the attention on us instead of the mission. Ok, maybe there is hope for the extroverted leader. Maybe there is a way that we can capture the hearts of the future generation and lead them on a glorious mission!

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