Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Using Crisis to Lead

The article to click on is "Don't Waste a Crisis." We find ourselves constantly trying to avoid any type of conflict or crisis in our lives and ministries. However, this article points out how suffering can bring about spiritual growth. The author, John Ortberg, states, "Crises, while unwanted, are windows of opportunity for the cure of souls." The article goes on to share how we as ministers can use situations of crisis to helo others change their lives. He says the only way a crisis can bring growth is by dealing with it appropriately. As leaders we need to learn what that appropriate way is. If we do not act on a crisis in the right way then the growth stops when the crisis stops. When we act in the right way then the growth continues Ortberg writes here about spending time with the person in crisis and giving them the time and guidance that is needed for them to work through their distress. We are to be there to listen and guide, instead of to teach. A time of crisis is a time for a person to see things in his or her own life that need changing. Ortberg says that if we do not get these things changed during the crisis that the opportunity is gone, and we revert back to our old ways. I disagree with this because I have experienced the ability to change after the crisis was over by remembering what was happening during that time and using that memory to help continue the change.

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  1. Ruthie I agree with you. While I affirm that personal tragedy can be transforming experiences for an individual, I also believe that transformation is unlikely to happen as the person is going through a difficult time. This does not mean that we wait until the difficult experience passes, but it does mean that we must not have an agenda that leads us to sub-consciously force change. This action can only led to feelings of resentment by the person we are seeking to help. Many times just being, talking, and listening with the person is the only things that we can do. What we can hope for is that the time that we have spent with them allows us an opportunity to continue to walk with them after the fact. I think that it would be a great tragedy if we went into a difficult and life changing experience with the understanding that we are going to bring about transformation. It is not only a tragedy, but also extremely destructive. Opportunities will present themselves. We must not be overly concerned with making those moments happen. This is where we must trust that God will coordinate the circumstance in order that significant transformation can take place. But again, we must not rush it or force it.

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